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Paul was born on 20th August 1976, in Wordsley hospital Stourbridge. We lived in Bittern Walk, so when Paul started school he went to Peters Hill school .He enjoyed school especially art and there he first met his friends Matt and Parg. Later he went to Thorns school, again with Matt & Parg, passed
8 GCSE's and an AS level in art. On leaving Thorns, with the idea of going
to university eventually, he decided to go to Halesowen College to study
A levels, once again with Matt & Parg. While he was there he met Chloe,
his first girlfriend , and they were together for over two years. After
two years at Halesowen, Paul, Chloe, Matt & Parg all elected to do
an art foundation at Bournville College for 1 year, here Paul met another
good friend, George, having passed all his exams, and having had a good
time, Paul was accepted by University of Central England Gosta Green to
take a BA Hons Industrial Design degree, the friends split here and only
George was left with Paul on this course. After one year working at Egg he sent a cv to a company called Trimtech,
which designs parts for cars. He was overjoyed when they offered him a
job and though it did involve travelling to Coventry every day that was
no problem. It was Paul's ideal job. He loved the work designing parts
for cars and they in turn were very pleased with him. After a bad start to the Millenium as Paul's Nan died, things got worse when Paul was shaking hands with one of the bosses at Jaguar and fractured his arm. After a lot of tests this turned out to be a bone cancer - shocking news - but Paul remained positive that his life could return to normal and he could rid his body of cancer. Paul underwent months of chemotherapy, and spent over 100 nights in QE hospital that year, but in the July the tumour was not reducing, and the decision to amputate his right arm and shoulder was made. Paul once again coped with this wonderfully, and was soon back on track determined to do everything with his left hand and get back to work Christmas 2000 was good, chemotherapy finished and a clear scan. Paul enjoyed himself with the lads, Parg was once again on the scene, and they had a good few drinks and laughs!!! At the start of 2001 Paul was planning his return to work already.
He took delivery of a brand new VW Golf car, adapted to driving with one
arm in 5 minutes , and drove off up the road, thrilled that he was back
on the road again and not dependent on others to get around, but the next
scan showed some small tumours in his lungs. He then underwent two operations
to remove these tumours, sadly another tumour appeared in his neck and
he then had to have a course of radiotherapy which caused him a lot of
pain. Even so he went down to Bournemouth with the lads on Geoffs stag
weekend and had a good time. Hhe also went to Geoff's wedding even though
in the middle of treatment, and he went out on the evenings whenever he
was well enough. The Paul started to have trouble with his breathing at the beginning of June and had to spend most of the time in bed. Sadly Paul lost his battle with Cancer on 21st July 2001. Paul will never be forgotten, and I think we are only just realising what a vast impression he made on so many lives. Everyone loved Paul |
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